Theprocessofperceivingothersisrarelytranslated(toourselvesorothe

Theprocessofperceivingothersisrarelytranslated(toourselvesorothers)intocold,objectiveterms．"Shewas5feet8inchestall,hadfairhair,andworeacoloredskirt．"Moreoften,wetrytogetinsidetheotherpersontopinpointhisorherattitudes,emotions,motivations,abilities,ideas,andcharacters．Furthermore,wesometimesbehaveasifwecanaccomplishthisdifficultjobveryquickly--perhapswithatwo-secondglance． Wetrytoobtaininformationaboutothersinmanyways．Bergersuggestsseveralmethodsforreducinguncertaintiesaboutothers;whoareknowntoyousoyoucancomparetheobservedperson'sbehaviorwiththeknownothers'behavior,observingapersoninasituationwheresocialbehaviorisrelativelyunrestrainedorwhereawidevarietyofbehavioralresponsesarecalledfor,deliberatelystructuringthephysicalorsocialenvironmentsoastoobservetheperson'sresponsestospecificstimuli,askingpeoplewhohavehadorhavefrequentcontactwiththepersonabouthimorher,andusingvariousstrategiesinface-to-faceinteractiontouncoverinformationaboutanotherperson--question,self-disclosures,andsoon． Gettingtoknowsomeoneisanever-endingtask,largelybecausepeopleareconstantly changingandthemethodsweusetoobtaininformationareoftenimprecise．Youmayhaveknownsomeonefortenyearsandstillknowverylittleabouthim．Ifweaccepttheideathatwewon'teverfullyknowanotherperson,itenablesustodealmoreeasilywiththosethingsthatgetinthewayofaccurateknowledgesuchassecretsanddeceptions．Itwillalsokeepusfrombeingtoosurprisedorshockedbyseeminglyinconsistentbehavior．Ironically,thosethingsthatkeepusfromknowinganotherpersontoowell(e．g．secretsanddeceptions)maybejustasimportanttothedevelopmentofasatisfyingrelationshipasthosethingsthatenableustoobtainaccurateknowledgeaboutaperson(e．g．disclosuresandtruthfulstatement)． Somepeopleareoftensurprisedbywhatotherpeopledo．AccordingtoBerger,thatismainlybecause__________．

A.some people are more emotional than others

B.some people are not aware of the fact that we will never completely know another person

C.some people are sensitive enough to sense the change of other people's attitudes

D.some people choose to keep to themselves

正确答案是B